Geeky kinkster living in west London. I'm in an open relationship with "full permissions" to play around. I'm Dominant but not one of those people who are all about the 24/7 "bow to me slut" attitude. It was a long road for me to reach the point I'm at today, with many twists and turns and a considerable number of potholes along the way, this has lead me to be remarkably open minded, nigh on unshockable, and in possession of a wicked, and occasionally warped/dark sense of humour My main enjoyment comes from domination rather than bondage, although I find it interesting how they interact together so learn what I can about ties etc, and whilst I have been described as a sadist, I gain my pleasure from hurting masochists, not everybody, if they're not enjoying recieving it I find it tedious and boring. Kink isn't *necessary* for my enjoyment, so I'm fine with vanilla hookups too.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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