We are a happily married couple with . Both have professional jobs and lots of responsibilities. Most of our friends would say that as a couple we are easy going, adventurous and fun to be around. We both like the thrill of the hunt. She loves the attention when being pursued by a well spoken gentleman and of course I (the hubby) love to watch it all unfold. We like the bar scene but are more happy hour people than late night partyers unless we are engaged and having fun late into the evening. In the bedroom, we tend to like experimental and kinky sex when it is the two of us. We have a pretty good sex life but have been married for 20 years and look for new ways to spice it up. Some of our favorite activities/positions in the bedroom are role playing about her with other men, toys, watching porn. Her favorite position is doggie. We both love outdoor sex especially on our boat and when the romantic mood strikes us, we will drink wine and enjoy a nice bath together or enjoy a sexy soak in the hot tub. She likes men who are attractive meaning height weight proportionate, good listeners, smooth talkers and who are confident but not cocky. Must be a good flirt which is easy with her because she really enjoys being complimented. We are not into BDSM or humiliation. This is all about her pleasure and enjoyment

My Ideal Person A friend with benefits. A gentleman between 35-50. Well groomed, height and weight proportionate. Charming, witty and confident but not cocky.

Part of the fun for us and her is the thrill of the hunt and the connection.

Must be respectful of our marriage and willing to have rapport with the husband. (he is straight)

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
We are at a bar pretending to be friends while she receives
attention from other men in the bar and locks in on one. Hubby
who is pretending to be her friend or colleague acts as DD
and drives them to the hotel while watching and intense
make out in the back seat. Once at the hotel, hubby enters
the room a few minutes later and watches through the cracked
bedroom door. Once they are done and the guy leaves she tells
him about her experience with him and they gets a round 2
with hubby.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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