FYI I'm polyamorous. I have one other sexual partner. He know's all about this profile. Sometimes looks over my shoulder and giggles at my interactions. [COLOR darkred][B]Sex analogies anyone[/B]?[/COLOR] First and foremost I view sex as a recreational activity. Much like snowboarding or in some cases skydiving or bungee jumping depending on your level of safety. Things you could potentially "break your leg" or die from, and sometimes it doesn't matter what precautions you take, the "gear" you're working with just wasn't "checked right/often" by the other "operator/rental store." You should btw, be checking your own gear and making sure it's in good operating condition as well, you're just as responsible as the rental shop! People still do these things even though they may die, or get fucked up because the fun-aspect is still totally worth it! People will always do these stupid extreme sport things much like people will probably always have sex. because that adrenaline high and connection to everything and your own life makes your senses explode if ever briefly. Sometimes the experience is life changing for better or worse and helps us grow as humans. I adore that feeling of connectivity and attention to my body, feeling sexy as fuck and worshiped or used and tossed away like I dont even matter. I LOVE the feeling of cock sliding into me inch by inch slowly and also slamming me so hard the mattress is in danger of falling off the bed frame. I love it from behind. I love it on top. I love it from the side, and i ADORE begging for it. Denial, and that frenzy feeling. I LOVE sex. But I dont need someone I'm going to even potentially spend the rest of my life with to have it. I don't honestly even need to like you. I just need to trust your "gear" is good and you check it. The "snowboard rental store" does NOT need to take me out to dinner and a movie to convince me to go "snowboarding". What it needs to do is tell me about their "warrentees and insurance, and safety inspection information" and if they want to do that over dinner and a movie I guess I wont stop you and that makes you a bit classier then your average rental shop. On a random side topic... have you ever gone skydiving or bungee jumping or snowboarding with like a group of 4 people that you are friends/get along with? SO MUCH FUN and if you don't know they that well you generally know them a whole lot better by the end! and you have the potential for that one per to be like "no! I only want to go on the bunny hill." or everyone takes a slightly different approach to it around these trees (snowboarding), or close your eyes and hold your breath and jump! (skydiving) or "shitguys you're going to have to push me" (bungee jumping). And the mix I find fantastic if it's with good people, we laugh, we have fun, and so long as no one gets judgemental and we're all aware of ourselves we all come out of it feeling great! Sometimes one night stands happen. Not many people aim for those. But in my world every once in a while they happen. And they only happen in my world when I've talked to the per, was really into them, sexual chemistry was bubbly and flirty, liked their kisses and the way they touch me, we go to have sex and... PTTTTTTTBBBBBBBBBBBBBBBB Falls flat. Your mojo isn't working with my mojo and I feel like our separate styles are just not going to mesh up well enough that it's a good idea to continue. (aka: Ski's are just as legit as snowboards, but they're still ski's, and you should find a skiing partner) Finally, sex with a partner that I am connected with, emotionally, and love, is still just an enhancer to a relationship. If you didn't already have the good foundation of a relationship then sex isn't going to compensate for it. Sex is a added bonus, and an added intimacy level if you allow it to be. Good sex is a necessity perally for me in a relationship, but it doesn't have to be super often. But that's just because I enjoy sex, and if I love someone I want to do the things I enjoy with them. (lol) This may not be your view on it, but it's how I do sex on planet lily. I respect the fact that it may not be how you do it on your planet though and if we ever go snowboarding on your planet let me know how you do things there.

My Ideal Person Masculine. (I don't really care what's in your pants)

Functionally I might freeze up and panic if the stuff in your pants is non-binary or resembles my stuff in my pants because I have no idea how to make that stuff happy... But if you're willing to work with me and my panic then its all good.

Other then that I generally like these qualities:
- Strong, long lasting, fingers (I'm very penetration oriented)
- well placed Confidence (If you tell me you made a girl orgasm by looking at her and your tongue never gives out after 5 hours I will call bullshit and tap out.)
- A desire that goes beyond your genitals (I want someone who is driven to make me squirm and find new and fun ways to get me to scream. Sometimes this involves toys, other times fingers, maybe even tease and denial)
- Charisma (I like someone who can talk me into things. I am good about saying no. So if someone can convince me to say yes and stop with the anxiety it's lovely.)

And above all else:
Someone who will make the decisions. People sometimes call this dominance, I don't necessarily like boxing that up with just that ribbon. I like to be led by other people's passion, charisma and confidence. I can be very blunt and make the first move, but I want to be led from there.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I'm restrained and forced to orgasm over and over again
on a fucking machine. having people touch my body and use
my mouth and ass. being a piece of fuckmeat really.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Diego Luna... Mmmmm that accent.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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