I am a college professor who teaches the humanities in Los Angeles. I am well educated, have traveled extensively and a great conversationalist. Of course, lately, I would genuinely appreciate something more than conversation. Interests include people watching at cafes and museums, reading (the more the better), hiking mountain trails and surfing on the weekends. I have a sensual side that is rarely appreciated in my marriage, and which I would like to share with the right woman for an ongoing 'friends with benefits' relationship.

My Ideal Person The ideal woman for me is emotionally mature and secure, enjoys talking about just about anything, enjoys wine and the taste of wine on a man's mouth even better, and likes to take turns taking charge in bed and being totally possessed. I prefer women ages 30-50, white, asian or hispanic.