.[COLOR crim]I am a big woman. I love sex . I am open minded . BDSM is welcome but not required , I love porn watching it and making it.I love oral sex giving and receiving it.Massages ,candle wax ,spanking , hair pulling. Not into anal sex at all. When I am in the chat room I am not looking for sex per say just chatting.I prefer to have a face picture before a penis picture usually. I love cock don't get me wrong . I love to laugh and have good times. FWB or friends first then we will see .Likes on a guy long hair or bald ,nice smile , sense of humor, someone that doesn't give a damn that his friends see him with a pretty fat girl. Dislikes Disrespectful people, bashing sexes women and men both can be tools, negative drama and b/s and games not into liars and I don't babysit.B.O. is a turn off I like soap and water and right guard.ANAL SEX did i mention I don't like ANAL SEX. [/COLOR]

My Ideal Person Someone fun, who doesn't think I'm a novelty who is open minded and loves big women.I'm not really looking for just sex . I want someone that can be around that is polite and knows how to treat a woman.It's one thing to be wild in the bedroom another to be a lady on the street. Also looking for someone to bring out my inner goddess.So who is game I'm ready.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
TOOL, Puscifer, Bowie, Joni Mitchell

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Candle Wax, Spanking, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Leather, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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