Hi there! SWM seeking discreet friendship(s) that will allow me to express myself sexually, mentally, and physically. At first, I am painfully shy, introverted, quiet, and a bit of a nerd. But once you get to know me, I am eager, insatiable, enthusiastic, mischievous, naughty, and a true friend. I have bounced around throughout my life, i.e., several different places and experienced different cultures. Which makes me an understanding, accepting, and open-minded person. I really want to find a friend with whom I can explore the true meaning of pleasure. We can have a really good time...fulfilling both your fantasies and mine. Are nerds better in bed? The most fantastic lover I ever had was a total nerd. She preferred the natural look to heavy makeup and immersed herself in politics and fan fiction. In the bedroom, she was insatiable and completely uninhibited. Generally, once you scratch the surface and get past the nerd factor, it is practically porn. Nerds definitely have more "practical" sexual experience. Our sexual experience is of the love & relationship type, and not the hump & dump kind. We pay attention and ensure that our partner's experience is all it can be, that their needs are fulfilled, and yet still show affection, tenderness, and desire. My bedroom personality is best described as sometimes shy at first, but if I am into it, you will know. With that said, every encounter is unique and has its own spirit. Let us find a rhythm of our own.

My Ideal Person Kind, openminded, adventurous, affectionate, similar kinks and willing to stick with a discreet relationship, Understanding that What we have at home comes first. Within a reasonable distance.