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WHY ADULT THEATERS AND GLORYHOLE BOOTHS
We live in an area, that in most cases, requires driving a distance to meet people in this lifestyle, and drive we have. In these economical bad times, we found that the clubs are falling off in attends and people are just plain tire of the little inter-circles which require you to attend on a weekly or monthly bases. We have tried numerous swinger websites, all with the same out come. Lot's of faults hopes and promises. Lot's of e-mail exchanges with little more to show for our time then the inevitable. Scheduling has been and always will be our biggest hang up. It's either work, family, or personal friends that change our plans at the last minute. It's nothing for us to set up meetings only to cancel at the last moment. So, cancellations are just as big a problem with couples, as they are, with females and males. What we all maybe doing wrong is relying on AdultFriendFinder members being able to "jump" at the chance to meet. Chance are, they have the same scheduling problems we've mentioned. Also understand, these swinger sites are a magnet for people to open profiles with or without a REAL female being involved or the interest and/or ability to meet! The cam viewing program makes this a very popular site. After all that being said, swinger sites are a major hit and miss. More misses then hits, I should add. Our area of is like a dead zone for swingers outside the clubs and house parties. Clubs and house parties do give you the advantage of actually talking face to face allowing everyone a little time to get to know one another. BUT,,they are EXPENSIVE and still require the ability to ADVANCE PLAN! So,,you ask WHY GLORY-HOLES BOOTHS and ADULT THEATERS? We've seen this as, the new meeting place for the swingers set, not only males, but couples and females. (LADIES,,It's not JUST for the guys anymore!)
Why are Adult bookstores (with GHs) and adult porno theaters convenient?
You might be wondering what a gloryhole actually is, well for starters, it is simply a hole drilled or carved out between two closet like rooms called booths. (video booth) These video booths are fairly basic in adult bookstore where you can watch erotic videos in private.
**I want to emphasize, always the door behind you (if possible) when you enter the video booth unless you're planning to invite someone(s) into your booth.
Sex through glory holes is a very erotic experience.
Never, EVER, have intercourse without a condom!
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Especially for standard members, it's important to use every free tool that A F F gives you to connect with others. That's why we're here, right? We want to MEET someone. For the guys, it's even more important to be active, because we outnumber the women seeking men by about 16 to 1. We have to do something to make ourselves stand out from the crowd, because the women can literally pick and choose. And before you say what a great profile you have, remember this: many women are also standard members, and they aren't allowed to look at that many profiles trying to find a great guy like you. Besides, THEY DON'T HAVE TO--they are literally flooded with emails from the men! First, here are three ways that groups WON'T work for you: 1. Lurking--Just joining a group and not being active in it is a sure-fire way to stay invisible. That's like buying a hammer, and expecting it to drive the nails for you. 2. Posting Only "Pick-Up Ads"--You know, those little posts where someone says how big his cock is, or how eager he is, and "where are all the younger women for older men?", etc., etc. This is slightly better than just lurking, because at least you've started driving the nail. The only problem is, you still expect it to finish driving itself, and it's a safe bet that pretty soon you'll be yet another one of those whiners complaining about how "this site doesn't work". 3. Being Impatient, Shallow or Rude--Everything worth having takes patience and work to acquire. If you're going to throw a little temper tantrum because you haven't found what you're looking for--even though you haven't invested any REAL effort--you don't belong on A F F, let alone in a group! This may be a sex site, but people still want to know that you're honest, non-violent and in possession of a mind bigger than your genitals. PARTICIPATE, PARTICIPATE, PARTICIPATE! This is how you get the most out of any group. Did you know that many standard members actually hook up with each other simply because of getting INVOLVED in groups? It's true: I've even seen long-term relationships develop that way! Here's the thing: when people post questions, thoughts, feelings, fantasies and jokes in groups, they do it because they are looking to interact with you. It's a way for them to get to know something about the personality behind the keyboard, and that often leads to great friendships or more. It also lets them know that you're interested in them as people, not just sex objects. It's the same reason why I, as the Moderator, post discussion threads. I'm not doing it because I just like to hear myself talk; I'm doing it to try to provide more ways for members to interact with each other, and also to encourage them to start discussion threads of their own. Get involved in the discussions. Post some threads of your own. Show people there's a mind, a heart and a sense of humor behind that picture. Gradually, people will get to know you and like you--and THAT, my friend, is how you will end up meeting someone. OH--and, fellas? The next time a young lady posts a thread about how she's looking to meet someone, don't just join the stampede of men rushing to say nothing more than "Hi, I'm here, please hit me up". First of all, she probably doesn't even know where you are, let alone what kind of person you are mentally and physically. Secondly, she's already got tons of one-liners coming at her from all directions. You'll stand head and shoulders above the rest, if you find an interesting way to respond to her. Tell her you looked at her profile and what you liked about it; ask her an interesting question, or show a gentle sense of humor. Give her a reason to want to know more about you than just a picture of your cock. If you're consistent about it, someday you'll be telling the group about this wonderful person you met here. And we'll all be glad with you! | |||
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