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I'm back And think I've figured out women. (Hate comments are coming I know it)  

CeriosEros 39M
616 posts
7/18/2018 1:03 am

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I'm back And think I've figured out women. (Hate comments are coming I know it)


Hey...What's going on..? I'm back kind of. I still won't be posting as much as I used to but I'm not going to cloister myself anymore. So...What did I miss? How did the blogger meet up go? I missed the chance to stand against a wall and have awkward conversation with AdultFriendFinder bloggers because no one reads my blog so they aren't going to know who I am. I've been great. I got depressed, got fat. Stop being depressed, stayed fat. Got grey hair in my beard now. So I'm aging faster than I should...that's upsetting. Still got my V-card but now I got tits to play with because I'm fat. Going to take care of the virgin thing for sure this time no backing out because I get a sudden case of self respect. But first I got to get rid of this grotesque swinging gut because 4 tits are only hot in a threesome. That being said I return bearing gifts. I think I've finally figured out what women want when it comes to men. You can roast me over a open fire in the comments if I'm wrong but I think I'm on to something here.


It only took me 33 years of being completely confused about what women want but I think I've finally figured out what heterosexual women want in a partner. Are you ready? They want a man. Before you throw cabbages at me and curse me out like a sailor who just stubbed his toe while catching his best friend fucking his wife for telling you something you already know let me explain myself. They don't want just any men they want a man who is like a CEO of a fortune 500 company. A man who has a vision for the future and moves forward regardless of obstacles, challenges or setbacks if that makes sense. That I'm trying to say is they want someone who has a core code of conduct that helps elevate everyone around them and won't change it for anyone. Not even them.

This was a huge shock for me being that I heard all my life that women want a nice guy who treats them well. That was beaten into my head being that I'm a millennial and we're the first generation of men to be raised primarily by women. Although that isn't a lie it's not the whole truth. Women would rather be with a man who she respects than one who is nice. And you get a woman's respect by holding to your principles even when it means not being nice. Being a leader even if that means not treating her well at times. Because if I woman can make you deviate from your principles she's going to expose that chink in your armour until she finds the soft spot and if you can't protect yourself how can you protect her. That's when she starts to lose respect for you and when she loses respect that's when the claws come out and she's going to dig into the soft spot until you find the chink, address your shortcomings and put your armour back on this time stronger and better equipped so you never can be hurt like that again. Making you both better protected or until she strips the whole thing off of you and slices you to ribbons until she gets bored.

I think we forget that humanity evolved under duress because of our soft modern lives but we have these ancient systems wired into our DNA. Men evolved to handle threats by being strong mentally and physically to protect themselves and those that they care about while women evolved to weed out the weak to ensure the survival of themselves and those they care about. Men build society while women maintain it's stability. It's a beautiful collaboration if you think about it. Ok you can tell at me in the comments now.

CeriosEros 39M
642 posts
7/18/2018 1:05 am

I always write as one continuous stream of consciousness so I'm 99% sure that this only makes sense to me.


CeriosEros 39M
642 posts
7/18/2018 2:09 am

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Please elaborate. I could learn something that I didn't consider and change my opinion.


CeriosEros 39M
642 posts
7/18/2018 2:13 am

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That's really interesting. If you think about it there is no reason for stud lesbians to exist if a woman is into other women other than to satisfy the need to be protected my masculine like strength that's embedded in women's DNA from millions of years ago. Thanks for the comment. It really made me think.


CeriosEros 39M
642 posts
7/18/2018 3:14 am

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What don't you agree about it? Let get a discussion going. I might be completely wrong.


CeriosEros 39M
642 posts
7/18/2018 3:19 am

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I wasn't saying that women want to change men. I was trying to say that women want to expose men who are pretending because if he was pretending 200,000 years ago her and her children would be at great risk. That really isn't the cases anymore but our DNA doesn't know that.


smartasswoman 66F  
35813 posts
7/18/2018 10:25 am

Women are not a monolithic hive mind. Some of us want one thing, some want something else. The moment someone says in a blog post "here's what women want", they've lost credibility with me and the rest of the post is just 'blah blah blah blah Ginger'.

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Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
7/18/2018 8:32 pm

It only took me 33 years of being completely confused about what women want ... You can blame you mom for that. She probably bought into all that feminist nonsense about raising male children to think like girls and be in touch with that fictional feminine side, so got you to go in the wrong direction. Where was your dad?

but I think I've finally figured out what heterosexual women want in a partner. ...Heterosexual women don't have "Partners".... they have a "Boyfriend", they have a "Husband", they have a , "Man", ..... but they don't have a "Partner". "Partner" is a term used so homosexuals don't feel left out. The homos got all confused, so the Political Correctness society said, "Here, have rainbows and partners".

They want a man. ... Yes, but the kind of man they want no longer exist or is extremely hard to find , within their millennial generation. She's looking for men like her grandfather. Ever seen those memes that do a side-by-side comparison to the males of the 1940s or 1950s, to the males of the 1980s or 1990s..... well it's like that.

They don't want just any men they want a man who is like a CEO of a fortune 500 company. .... Close. Men who are successful, have money, have power, or at the very least show great potential to acquire money, power, and/fame, also have the best shot of attracting the women HE would want. The losers? They have to settle, if they can at all.....it isn't always pretty.

A man who has a vision for the future and moves forward regardless of obstacles, challenges or setbacks if that makes sense. ... Perfect sense.

What I'm trying to say is they want someone who has a core code of conduct that helps elevate everyone around them and won't change it for anyone. ... Not necessarily..... but it couldn't hurt. He could be a real asshole, but women would want him. ..... Clearly women get with assholes. I'm sure you've talked to women who say they left their boyfriend or husband because he was an asshole. The point is, he had her.

This was a huge shock for me being that I heard all my life that women want a nice guy who treats them well. .... Sure, after she's fucked everyone and maybe has some kids, and has gained tons of weight , and lost her youthful looks....NOW she wants a nice guy..... That nice guy? He's settling for what he can get. Which is pretty sorry for him.

That was beaten into my head being that I'm a millennial and we're the first generation of men to be raised primarily by women. ...... Totally correct, and it's a shame.

Women would rather be with a man who she respects than one who is nice. .... "Respects", would be good , for the long term, but women want to be viscerally excited by a man.

Being a leader even if that means not treating her well at times. .... That's right.... you're not her "Partner", you're her man, [bf/husband].... "Partner" is a term for homosexuals, and effeminate men, use. And when a woman calls you her "Partner", she is not respecting you. Dump her.

I think we forget that humanity evolved under duress because of our soft modern lives but we have these ancient systems wired into our DNA. .. That's right. And softening the male into a manw-woman does not make him "Safer" to be around. Women still like to feel protected, so trying to remove the aggressive violent part out of the male is a huge mistake.

Men evolved to handle threats by being strong mentally and physically to protect themselves and those that they care about ... That's right.


CeriosEros 39M
642 posts
7/20/2018 3:34 am

    Quoting smartasswoman:
    Women are not a monolithic hive mind. Some of us want one thing, some want something else. The moment someone says in a blog post "here's what women want", they've lost credibility with me and the rest of the post is just 'blah blah blah blah Ginger'.

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This isn't a scientific research paper it's a blog post. Of course they're are going to be some generalizations just for the sake of argument. If you disagree with my point tell me where you think I went wrong and we can have a discussion but to dismiss my whole point on a technicality seem like a lazy argument.


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